Man issue, What should I do?

I've been with my curent bf for 2yrs. In December he started being very distant. He'd disappear at night, not call for days at a time, go out of town without even letting me know, go back and forth about wether or not he wanted to be with me, start arguements for no reason, see him only once a week. One time I went to his house and found a females comb (with hair) on his sink counter and all of our pictures tucked away. This BS went on from Dec to about 3wks ago. I grew tired and hurt so much (after 4months) that I told him we needed some time/space to figure out what was best for us individually (including seeing other people). The man I dated before my current bf had been calling and we were friends, he was young/dumb before but for the last year he's been a good friend. Nothing physical just calling to check on me, telling me how special I am, and told me he's in- love with me. My bf has come to his senses says he made a mistake and has been almost perfect for 3wks, but I'm confused

Man issue, What should I do?

LOL, you keep updating I'm changing what I said...

I think you just need to step out of both relationships and start fresh. There is no reason to try to stay in a relationship you are hurt by.

Man issue, What should I do?

Maybe you both need to discuss where your friendship stands. If you both are standing on two different roads then that should tell you what you need to do.

Man issue, What should I do?

it depends on who you love.

to me it seems like the old bf.

don't doubt him, it's amazing that he came back to you. that means a lot.

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Man issue, What should I do?

I really don't know what you should do because i am pretty young and this like a soap opera to me. If i was in your situation though, i would listen to my heart.

Man issue, What should I do?

kill him

Man issue, What should I do?

Dump the current bf and go back with the old bf. You don't need such drama in your life. What about marriage? Can you find a man that you love who will commit to a exclusive sex life with you through out a life long marriage contract? That would be the best for you, but it will take work for both of you and sacrifice but it is you greatest hope for bf relationship happiness.

Man issue, What should I do?

This is coming from a man point of view just leave his butt and movie to something good and better in your life like me i was married for 12yrs my wife didn,t wont me anymore so i left and move but i don,t have anyone in my life rite now that rite person hasn,t came alone yet so if that you looking for that rite person just get an email ok Love Tavious

Man issue, What should I do?

Of course he has been good for 3 weeks - you scared him by telling him you wanted some space. The only thing to do is ask him whats going on and tell him you care about him but if he feels he needs to do other things like cheat - then go do it - but you won't be sticking around. Let him understand that in a relationship - you do need to let the other know where you are and such - you can't just leave someone guessing as to where you are. The other guy might be good - but just make sure he is not sugar coating you and telling you all the things you want to hear just to get you.