Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Im embarrassed, how can I ever show my face again?

My fiancee is in a new band. He had they guys over today for a rehersal. I was in the bathroom, on the toilet, my fiancee was also in there combing his hair- no big deal to us. The a band guy OPENED the door!!!! There I was, Inserting a tampon, the old one in clear view in the open trash can!!!!! This has got to be the number one most humiliating thing that ever happened to me! The guy didnt say anything, he just walked away. But I will be seeing this guy again, I dont think I can face him, I dont even think it is possible to make light of it. I guess it was an accident. but still, he should have knocked. or at least appoligized!



Im embarrassed, how can I ever show my face again?

He might have been as embarrassed as you. You must not let that make you so uncomfortable. We all have to face embarrassing situations like that.



Im embarrassed, how can I ever show my face again?

I don't know HOW you can stand going to the bathroom when someone else is in there.



Even if he is your fiancee.



Im embarrassed, how can I ever show my face again?

Your fiance and the guy who rudely opened the door are probably even more embarrassed then you are! Don't worry, once you get to know these guys better you WILL be able to make light of it.



Im embarrassed, how can I ever show my face again?

Oh grow up will you. We're all human. It's not like you were stabbing a baby there.



Im embarrassed, how can I ever show my face again?

The guy is in a band...... I'm sure he's seen much worse than that. We have all seen a tampon, we have all seen a girl on a toilet and occasionally a girl on a toilet changing her tampon. No biggie.



Im embarrassed, how can I ever show my face again?

you cannot take back what he saw, if he is a decent person he needs to apologize..........What he saw is a normal occurrence to women and that was not something crazy you were doing.........carry your head up and act like nothing's the matter



Im embarrassed, how can I ever show my face again?

the band guy probibly feels horible for that "incindent." hold you head up high and tell yourself "screw anyone who hates me for being a human." also, WAKE UP. guys like that sort of thing. i would say 50% of the internet is for that sort of thing.



Im embarrassed, how can I ever show my face again?

Awkward.. but whatever. It's not the end of the world. It's a natural occurence. It's not like he's going to go to all his band members and be like, "Hey guys, guess what I just saw? So-and-so's fiance INSERTING A TAMPON [laughter]". That's not funny, so don't worry about it.As long as you talk to him normally, it will be fine.

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