What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

ok im 16 and there is an older guy that comes over to my house ok this older guy is my brothers friend hes 21. but anyway he really likes his haircombs and i alaways comb his hair but anyway my mother thinks that were secertly dating i dont care i think the reason my mother thinks that is because i like him and we have allreadt has sex once but she knew about that but it really dont matter i just need help to calm my mother down so she dont think so much of it. well HELP

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

well if u luv him you shouldn't worry about age or what Ur mother thinks u should just think bout of u luv him or not. or if he is just Ur ******* partner

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

just tell her that you arnt and if she wants to seh can talk 2 him or ever your brother

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

Know this isn't what you want to hear, but you should be listening to your mom. 5 years difference at your age is a big deal, and she was right to not leave you alone too much because you already slept with him when he isn't even your boyfriend!

You need to get some respect for yourself!

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

Your 16, lots of sex related things happen to girls aged around that, your mum should be worried.

Your still her 'baby' - 21 is a bit over the top, dont you think. Plus you don't even go out with him.

At this rate you will go out with him, and at that rate you would end up being a 16 year old mother, with him being older, he will want more from relationships.

And you dont want to be a young mother, that's the worst. I mean, all those college years you waste?

If you do want to do this, then the way to calm your mum down is to discuss it with her.

Tell her he is what you want. Also explain that its legal for you to do these things now, and not to worry about what he 'could' do to you.

Why would he sexually harass you? hes your brothers mate. he wouldn't waste a relationship, a mate, a criminal record and most of his lie in jail would he?

I can't really tell you what to say to your mum, just answer the questions positive tat she asks, it wont stop her worrying though.

She has the right to worry as she has control of you until you are 18. she has as much control of you now as she had when you were 8. just because you have left school does show that you are more mature but she is still your mum...

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

he should be in jail.......you're a child, he's an adult. stop banging men. do your homework or something.

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

I can certainly understand why your mother is freaked out...this ADULT is taking sexual advantage of you! It is her job to protect you and if this man has already hit on you once it is sure to happen again...combing hair is truly a way to get you to be in the mood for sexual activity.

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

If I was your brother I would kick my friends *** before having him arrested for statutory rape. Sounds like your mother is right on with her assessment of you. The fact that she still lets him in the house after knowing he had sex with you says a lot about her.

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

Do you really think your mom is out of line considering you comb a guys hair, you admit that you like him and already had sex with him!? You're 16 and he's 21...hello...wake up girly! Your mom has every right to think "so much of it"! She's trying to protect you, but is obviously too late. Something your mom knows that you don't yet - a 21 year old is only giving a 16 year old girl attention because he wants in her panties...and guess what...it worked!

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

tell her ur not dating..

if she cant trust/believe u then just let her think her thoughts..

but even if she knows ur not with him she will still have her thoughts in her head.

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

why is a 21 year old having sex with a 16 year old? your mother knew about that and still allows him in the house? What does your brother think? you need to let this too old for you guy go.

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

You already had sex with him... she has every right to believe you're going out with him.

Let her think what she wants to think... otherwise she'll just think you're a slut!

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

Your mother has every right to be worried as the dude is a pedophile. If you were my daughter, he would be in jail.

You may think it is cute and fun and exciting to sneak around, but I sure you will be singing a different tune when he becomes bored with you and no longer shows any interest in you and hooks up with another chick and may even bring her over and you have to pretend like nothing is wrong because you have already deceived your mother into thinking you weren't banging the dude anymore.

The solution is to stick to dating guys your own age!

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

You had sex with your brother's friend, whom you are not dating? I think your mom's got it backwards. She should have been more worried about the two of you having sex, than that the two of you are dating. Dating would be the least of my worries!

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

why cant you be open with her?you cant hide it for so long,the truth always comes out,she's your mum so tell her you like him but be diplomatic

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

first of all your a kid at the age of exploration ....and need to be on birth control it is him that needs to check himself....and you need to go hey he likes any girl that lets him in her pants guys at that age I think keep score and share with their buddies so at this rate you will be talked about all thru high school ...I feel the only thing that a woman has that is truly rightfully hers is her body and that alone can mean you hold the world ...think of yourself as an endangered species and everyone wants you but if you put yourself out there ,,,,eventually nothing will be left.....

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

I hate to tell you this but she should be worried and you can't blame her because you slept with him once already. If this guy had any brains at all, he would stay at least 5 feet from you even when he's there visiting. He is 21 years old. You are only 16. That's illegal. If you like this guy at all, you will leave him alone before your mom has to go through great lengths and has him arrested. I know it seems like it is not that much of a difference to you right now, but it is. When you get to 21 years old you'll see just how little you have in common with a 16 year old. The guy is a jerk and just knows he can get some from is friend's sister. That's bad. If he has any respect for your mom, he will stop coming over there.

What do you do when your mother assumes when your going out with an older guy?

i ignore her and follow my love!!to me it proved to be the best thing in my life !